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“Defeated” Mom Gets Best Response From Her Husband After A Rough Day With The Kids.

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We all know what a struggle it is to be a parent sometimes. The endless toil, the strain on your marriage. We’ve written in the past about letters parents have penned about this struggle, like “A Letter To My Husband In This Weird Phase Of Marriage” and “’10 Things No One Ever Told Me About Having A Daughter’ By A Stay-At Home Dad“. This story is about a stay-at-home mom, Kate Douglas.

Kate was tired after a long day of caring for her two boys, ages 2 and 5. She had “a hard day” with them and her husband came home to find her worn out. “I was defeated.” she wrote in a Facebook post, “They won,” she said about her kids. So she left her husband at home to get out of the house for a few hours and finally relax. But when she came back, she found her husband’s incredibly heartwarming post about her.

Kate shared the post, adding “ALL queens need to know they are appreciated!”

Check out her husband’s moving tribute here:


“After a hard day at work there is nothing better than clocking off. Some days I get home and see my beautiful wife worn out, tired, frustrated and overwhelmed by the challenges of being a mum. Unlike me, she has no set hour to clock off or rewarded with overtime or bonuses for all the extra work and effort she has put in during the day. She doesn’t accumulate sick leave, Annual leave or long service, no weekly supper or weekend, no looking forward to a public holiday to shorten her week.

On 3-5-11 she clocked onto being a mum, on 6-8-14 she started her overtime shift. 2 boys, 2 boys that never stop, that challenges every aspect of being a mother, she has never asked for a pay raise or looked for another job. So even though today was hard and you feel unappreciated or unsure if you made a difference in their lives this is how your day really went …

Your sons woke from their nice warm beds that have been lovingly washed and made by you. They ate breakfast that was organized a week ago when you wrote out the shopping list. You packed a lunchbox for 1 to go to daycare which you questioned ‘is it healthy enough, will he still be hungry’ whilst balancing another on your leg, arm, shoulders. You dropped off at daycare where you sat for an hour comforting him because he was having a bad day, letting him know mum will always be there.

You returned home where you spent a day with a 2 year old, holding conversations and toilet training, teaching him how to make his way from toddler to a big boy. You put him down in his bed for a nap making sure he had enough energy to make it through the rest of the day, despite knowing you don’t. You spent your limited time between resting, house work, house work, and house work. After all this and little rest you picked up from daycare where you took them to appointments, making sure they are as healthy as can be, Made sure they had dinner, had your first adult chat at dinner, the whole time still being a mum and solving the worlds issues.

So when you see a bad day, I see an amazing women who never calls in sick, never quits, never turns her back on the hard days and who has the power to go to bed knowing it will happen all again tomorrow, You are an amazing and fabulous mother, Even though it doesn’t seem like it, you are the greatest thing in these boys lives and we love you, for everything you do.”

Share this husband and father’s beautiful words today!

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