In a now-viral clip, Connecticut State Trooper, Kyle Kaelberer, did what it takes to “be the one.” The video opens on a typical traffic stop or parked vehicle check. As Trooper Kaelberer approaches the vehicle from the passenger side, he is all business. He asks the driver, “What is going on, boss?” The driver, in tears and visibly distressed, explains, “I’m on the phone with the… the VA hotline for suicide.”
Veteran Suicides And “22 A Day”
We frequently hear information about the suicide rate among our US veterans. The phrase “22 a day” is an oft-repeated mantra, but what does it mean? It refers to the national average of 22 veteran suicides per day. That number is astronomical. Working toward suicide awareness and prevention are essential steps we must take to decrease that number.
State Trooper Kyle Kaelberer’s Perfect Reaction To The Suicidal Veteran
The officer’s demeanor shifts immediately. He reassures the vet, saying, “Alright, hey, I got you, man, alright.” To diffuse the situation, Kyle tells the man his name and asks general questions. This tactic is helpful to calm a person down. It helps them feel like they are being heard.
The State Trooper tells the suicidal veteran he is going to call an ambulance for him. The vet says he can’t afford that but is reassured by Kyle that the state of Connecticut picks up the tab. Continuing to reassure the vet, Kyle gets him out of the vehicle. After a quick check for weapons, which is standard safety protocol, the officer reassured the vet in an understanding manner. They discussed the veteran’s service branch (Army) and deployments (one). During the exchange, Kyle presented a non-threatening stature and showed genuine care and concern.
The video ends with the veteran asking for a hug, to which Kyle obliges.
Officer Kyle did everything correctly in this situation. He handled the vet with care and concern and worked to let him know that he was not alone. Suicide awareness and prevention is something that every person can practice. If you notice someone who seems in distress, talk to them. Sometimes, all it takes is a kind word or two to help someone out of a rut and be the one who change their lives. Watch the entire exchange below.
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